Guess we all know the St.Valentine’s story, right? We are also used to the questions by now - Is Valentine’s day this…? Can Valentine’s day…? The How, What, When? Where to celebrate or Why not to celebrate. Aint we tired already asking these questions over and over again? Of course for the newbies and young ones, it’s okay to know your history but for the grown-ups, can we just enjoy the season in peace without promoting the gender wars or intersectionalities?
As February 14th
approaches, the perennial question resurfaces: why do men seem to have cracked
the code of Valentine's gifting while women struggle to find the perfect token
of affection for their partners? The digital landscape mirrors this narrative, with
searches for "gift for boyfriend" and "gift ideas for him"
dominating the virtual sphere. Why this stark dichotomy? Are men simply easier
to shop for, or is there a deeper psychological undercurrent at play?
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Delving into the psychology of gift-giving unveils
intriguing insights. Studies suggest
that men often gravitate towards tangible, utilitarian gifts—gadgets, tools, or
experiences that align with their interests. This preference is rooted in
societal norms that emphasize masculinity through practicality and
functionality. In contrast, women are socialized to express affection through
sentimental gestures—personalized keepsakes, romantic dinners, or heartfelt
declarations of love. The intersectionality of gender further complicates the
equation. Traditional gender roles dictate that men should be providers and
protectors, while women are nurturers and caregivers. Consequently, societal
expectations shape the perception of ideal gifts, reinforcing stereotypes and
perpetuating the cycle of gendered gifting.
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Valentine's Day gifts for him.
But what about the outliers, the couples who defy
conventional norms? What about the singles? What about those who were served
breakfast and now heartbroken? Those who once celebrated but have lost their
loved ones to death? Those who are indifferent probably based on beliefs or principles?
The LGBTQ+ community, the sick, poor and indigent? Do these groups deserve to
breathe on Valentine’s Day? Herein lies the crux of the matter—the struggle for
inclusivity in a world steeped in heteronormativity. These ones have to navigate
a landscape where mainstream narratives often overlook their experiences and
preferences, amplifying the challenge of finding meaningful gifts that resonate
with their situations/identities. What is love if it is picky, discriminatory
or unreasonably selfish?
While St. Valentine
focused on blessing the unions of young couples, it was more about promoting
the values & virtues of love, relationships & marriages over war i.e
destruction and death. These values include commitment, communication, respect,
trust, empathy, equality, companionship, family, community and more.
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The rise of social media amplifies these dynamics, with
hashtags like #GiftsforHim, #GiftsforHer flooding timelines, perpetuating
gendered stereotypes and exacerbating the pressure to conform. Yet amidst the
digital cacophony, a glimmer of hope emerges—a growing discourse on inclusivity
and diversity in gift-giving. Love stories are deeply intertwined with the
environments in which they unfold. While it is tempting to isolate ourselves or
discriminate against others when we are in love; this might intensify initial
emotions but it lacks the necessary elements for long-term fulfillment. Your
relationship needs people just as much as people need to be inspired by your
love story. Nobody falls in love and elopes to live on the moon. Couples in
love need to be more sensitive, tolerant and inclusive. Of course there are
different dimensions to these things as some situations beg for caution,
intentionality and balance.
Despite the current global chaos; Russia – Ukraine War, Israeli
– Gaza Conflict, US – China cold war, Artificial Intelligence Craze,
Genetically modified Pigs with human organs, Climate Change/Crisis & More,
we are reminded once again that this rich and vibrant mosaic of human connection
through LOVE is worth celebrating. Today and beyond, let’s make the season
about inclusive giving. Let us challenge the status quo and embrace a more
inclusive approach to love and gifting. Let us celebrate the myriad expressions
of affection, transcending the confines of gender and societal norms ‘cos LOVE goes
beyond being masculine or feminine. When we adopt this approach, we foster
healthier relationships and nurture vibrant communities where love can truly
flourish.
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For Heterosexual Relationships:
1. To my love, you light up my world like no one
else.
2. Happy anniversary, here's to many more years
of love and laughter.
3. You're my rock, thank you for always being
there for me.
4. Just a little something to remind you how
much you mean to me.
5. For my amazing partner, you deserve the world
and more.
6. Roses are red, violets are blue, I'm so lucky
to have you.
7. To the one who stole my heart, here's a token
of my love.
8. Thinking of you always, especially on this
special day.
9. Your smile brightens my day, here's to
keeping it shining.
10. With you by my side, every day feels like a
celebration.
11. Cheers to us and all the beautiful memories
we've made.
12. Here's to forever with you, my love.
13. For my favorite person, you make every
moment magical.
14. To the one who makes my heart skip a beat, I
adore you.
15. You make love feel easy, thank you for being
you.
16. With you, every day is Valentine's Day.
17. Here's a little something to show you how
much I care.
18. Happy birthday to the most incredible person
I know.
19. You're my sunshine on a cloudy day.
20. To my partner in crime, thank you for all
the adventures.
21. Here's to love, laughter, and happily ever
after.
22. With you, I'm home.
23. To my best friend and soulmate, I love you
more than words can say.
24. You make my heart sing, here's a melody just
for you.
25. Thank you for being the best part of my life.
26. To the love of my life, you make every day
brighter.
27. I'm grateful for every moment spent with
you.
28. You're my greatest blessing, today and
always.
29. Here's to making more memories together.
30. With you, everything is better.
31. To the one who makes my dreams come true, I
love you.
32. You're my forever and always.
33. Here's to us and all the love we share.
34. Happy anniversary to the love of my life.
35. You're the missing piece to my puzzle.
36. I'm grateful for your love every single day.
37. To my partner, my confidant, my everything.
38. Here's to love that grows stronger with each
passing day.
39. You're the reason for my smile.
40. With you, I've found my happily ever after.
41. To the one who holds the key to my heart.
42. Here's to the beautiful journey we're on
together.
43. Thank you for being my constant source of
happiness.
44. You're the best thing that's ever happened
to me.
45. Here's to love that knows no bounds.
46. To my favorite person in the world, I love
you endlessly.
47. You make every day feel like a fairytale.
48. With you, I've found my forever.
49. Here's to our love story, one for the ages.
50. I love you more than words can express.
For Gender-Neutral Relationships:
1. Happy anniversary to my partner in crime.
2. Here's to us and all the adventures ahead.
3. Thank you for being my rock through it all.
4. You make every day brighter with your
presence.
5. For my favorite human, you mean everything to
me.
6. Here's a little something to show you how
much you're loved.
7. To the one who makes my heart skip a beat,
thank you.
8. With you, every day feels like a celebration.
9. Here's to love, laughter, and endless joy.
10. I'm grateful for every moment spent with
you.
11. You make love feel effortless, thank you for
being you.
12. To my partner, my best friend, my
everything.
13. Happy birthday to the most incredible person
in my life.
14. Thank you for being my constant source of
happiness.
15. Here's to the beautiful journey we're on
together.
16. You're my sunshine on even the darkest days.
17. To my favorite person to laugh with, here's
to more giggles.
18. With you, I've found my home.
19. Here's to our love story, one for the ages.
20. I cherish every moment with you by my side.
21. You're the reason for my smile, today and
always.
22. Here's a token of my love, just because.
23. Thank you for being the best part of my
life.
24. You make every day feel like an adventure.
25. To the one who makes my soul sing, I love
you.
26. Here's to love that knows no boundaries.
27. You're my favorite person to share moments
with.
28. Happy anniversary to my partner in love and
life.
29. Here's to us, growing stronger with each
passing day.
30. I'm grateful for your love and support,
always.
31. You're my greatest blessing, today and every
day.
32. Here's to more memories and laughter
together.
33. Thank you for being my safe haven.
34. With you, I've found my happily ever after.
35. Here's a little reminder of how much you
mean to me.
36. You're the best thing that's ever happened
to me.
37. To my favorite human, thank you for being
you.
38. Here's to our love, unapologetic and true.
39. I love you more than words can express.
40. With you, everything is better.
41. Here's to the love that lights up my life.
42. You make every moment special.
43. Thank you for being my partner in this crazy
journey.
44. You're my favorite person in the world.
45. Here's to us and all the love we share.
46. I'm grateful for your love and
companionship.
47. You make my heart feel full.
48. Here's to our bond, strong and unwavering.
49. Thank you for being my constant support.
50. I love you to the moon and back.
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